Apologise or make up, by the Moon
Of 29 lunar days, the tradition favours 13 for this and discourages 7. The lunar day turns at moonrise, so a calendar date usually spans two of them — which is why a date can be good for part of the day and not the rest.
Favourable lunar days for apologise or make up
- Lunar day 1
- The tradition holds this as a day when forgiveness comes easily and grudges are best released.
- Lunar day 4
- The tradition treats this as a day for forgiving those who hurt you and warming family ties.
- Lunar day 5
- The tradition says warm feelings expressed today are read correctly by others, which loosely supports making up.
- Lunar day 7
- The tradition marks this as a day for mending relationship troubles with kind words.
- Lunar day 9
- The tradition calls for forgiving offences rather than holding on to them today.
- Lunar day 10
- The tradition names this day as perfect for making up after a quarrel.
- Lunar day 13
- The tradition says quarrelling gets no support today, a mood that loosely favours smoothing things over.
- Lunar day 14
- The tradition counts this among the best days for open, honest talk with those close to you.
- Lunar day 19
- The tradition names this a day for asking forgiveness and putting relationship wrongs right.
- Lunar day 21
- The tradition holds that talking things through goes well today, including sorting out issues.
- Lunar day 22
- The tradition sees this as a good day for reaching agreement with the other person.
- Lunar day 24
- The tradition describes a calm day suited to heartfelt conversation and easy company.
- Lunar day 28
- The tradition holds that heartfelt, attentive conversation with close ones goes especially well today.
Lunar days to avoid
- Lunar day 8
- The tradition warns that conflict flares easily today, making delicate peace-making risky.
- Lunar day 15
- The tradition warns of a provocative atmosphere, so sensitive attempts at peace-making may misfire.
- Lunar day 16
- The tradition advises withdrawal and minimal contact today, leaving little room for approaching someone to make up.
- Lunar day 18
- The tradition warns that anything touching on conflict today can drag on, so it counsels restraint.
- Lunar day 23
- The tradition warns that words are easily misread today, so delicate apologies may not land as intended.
- Lunar day 26
- The tradition points inward and toward solitude today rather than approaching others to make peace.
- Lunar day 29
- The tradition says people misread each other today and advises defusing rather than talking things out.
What this is, and is not
Inherited material, quoted as received. Checked against the tradition's own named authorities, these readings contradict each other on all 29 lunar days — so treat the guidance as a custom worth knowing, not a finding. The astronomy underneath it is exact: MoonIQ computes which lunar day you are in, and the minute it turns, for your own location.